The Dreamstitch system


An index of our members and a bit about us

Who are we?

Information about us as a whole system. Where we come from and who we are.

About the alters

Get a brief introduction and photo of each individual within our system.


Who are dreamstitch?


We all share a 20 year old AFAB (assigned female at birth) body. We live in Australia and grew up in the outback, although are happily now residing in a bigger town on our own. We are currently studying full-time at university. We are autistic and are all very creative; most of us have our own creative outlets that we enjoy (meaning we have a lot of hobbies between us).

The name 'Dreamstitch' was selected by our host as a nod to one thing that kept us going throughout our childhood; fantasy worlds. Whether worlds we made up ourselves or ones we found in books, movies and video games, we spent all the time we could somewhere else. 'Dreamstitching' is a concept from The Dark Crystal (as Thra is one of our absolute dearest fantasy worlds) where gelfling are able to stitch memories into objects, allowing any other gelfling who touches it to experience that memory. We felt that that was reminiscent of the ways in which we share memories between us.

About the alters


Name: 'A'
Role: Host
Age: 20
Gender+Pronouns: Cis girl, she/her
Sexuality: Pansexual
Bio: Not indicative of her real appearance. Our host identifies with the body and due to our desire for anonymity, she will remain vague.

Name: Genesis
Role: Caretaker?
Age: Ageless
Gender+Pronouns: Agender, slightly masc-leaning, he/they
Sexuality: Ace/aro (we think)
Bio: A very calm, reasonable and compassionate floating cloud who adapts to whatever form given to him. Gives clear external/internal communication when others are too distressed to do so.

Name: Toya
Role: Protector, potential gatekeeper?
Age: 20
Gender+Pronouns: Cis female, she/her
Sexuality: ???
Bio: Sarcastic and cold in nature, doesn't experience much emotion other than annoyance. Quick witted/tempered, responsible, knows more than most others about the system.

Name: Aladorei
Role: ???
Age: 300-500 years
Gender+Pronouns: Female, she/her
Sexuality: ???
Bio: A night elf from Azeroth. Thought to have formed due to host's deep longing in hard times to live in WoW rather than on Earth. A druid with a wintersaber. Gentle, kind, deeply misses her home and mourns Darnassus.

Name: Alura
Role: Trauma holder ???
Age: 19-20
Gender+Pronouns: Cis female, she/her
Sexuality: Ace/aro?
Bio: Kind but very timid. Doesn't like to talk to anyone outside of the system. Has what can only be described as a phobia of people. Thought to have split from host when her social anxiety got to be too much to handle.

Name: Brodie
Role: ???
Age: 18-20
Gender+Pronouns: Cis male, he/him
Sexuality: Straight
Bio: Light-hearted, fun-loving and outgoing. A friendly guy who loves a good-natured joke. Cares deeply for other members of the system who are in pain.

Name: David
Role: Trauma holder
Age: 15-18
Gender+Pronouns: Cis male, he/him
Sexuality: ???
Bio: Trapped in our old primary school (for now), unable to access other parts of the mind and the inner world - also can't front because of this. Multiple theories on why he's older than primary school age and male. A cool dude; exhausted and frustrated but kind.

Name: Essie (Esmeralda)
Role: ???
Age: 20
Gender+Pronouns: Cis female, she/her
Sexuality: Pansexual
Bio: Charismatic, energetic rocker-chick. She sings like no one else in the system both because of her technical ability and passion. Loves music, people and having a good time.

Name: J
Role: Persecutor
Age: 17-19
Gender+Pronouns: Some variety of masc, he/him
Sexuality: Gay
Bio: Believes that by engaging in various forms of SH and an ED we will be able to get people to love us and care about us. Believes our worth is based on the extent of our suffering We're working on this with him. Loves the emo/scene world and is, as you can see, a very colourful person.

Name: Jagger
Role: Protector
Age: 20
Gender+Pronouns: Cis female, she/her
Sexuality: Straight ? Maybe bi-curious?
Bio: Formed to help us fit in with a crowd who we didn't fit in with, as they were our only option for friends at the time and not fitting in had proved dangerous. Loves streetwear fashion and hiphop music. Has an accent.

Name: Matthew
Role: ???
Age: 20???
Gender+Pronouns: Cis male, he/him
Sexuality: ???
Bio: Don't know much about him yet, just that he absolutely adores photography and comes near the front or switches every time we have our camera. Soft and sweet in demeanour. Passionate about photo composition and probably cats.

Name: Sandra
Role: Inner Caretaker
Age: 25ish
Gender+Pronouns: Cis female, she/her
Sexuality: Ace/aro?
Bio: Seems to have one job and one alone - Manage the Big Guy (introduced below). She keeps him away from the front and other alters, and comes to ensure we're okay and tend to us if he reaches us.
Fun fact: One of the first alters the host was aware of.

Name: Travis
Role: Protector
Age: 19-20
Gender+Pronouns: Cis male, he/him
Sexuality: Straight
Bio: Very standoffish and unsocial. Says the F word a lot, short-tempered. Has the worst dysphoria out of all of us. Comes to the front in overwhelming social situations as he has an air about him that gets people to stop talking to us. Aggressively protective of the system.

Name: Vicki
Role: Emotional Protector
Age: 16ish
Gender+Pronouns: Cis girl, she/her
Sexuality: ???
Bio: Usually only brought to the front by negative triggers. Extremely manipulative; can spot others' manipulation tactics and knows how to get under their skin (and enjoys it). Good-natured and only manipulative/nasty towards people who pose a threat to get them to leave us alone.

Name: (Ol' man) Garry
Role: ???
Age:40-60
Gender/Pronouns: Cis man, he/him
Sexuality: ???
Bio: A friendly and rather eccentric older man, thought to have formed to act as a father figure to those who desired that. Is protective of the littles and often goes by Australian style nicknames like 'Gazzah'.

Name: Mabel
Role: ???
Age: 18-20
Gender/Pronouns: Cis girl, she/her
Sexuality: ???
Bio: The one person in our system who can actually draw well. Unknown origin but was friends with the host in their childhood, although the host thought they were imaginary. Has thought to take on the role of host in the past. She has spent a lot of time dormant and is difficult to get in touch with.

Name: Ophelia
Role: ???
Age: 15
Gender+Pronouns: Cis female, she/her
Sexuality: Straight
Bio: A lady of the 1800's who belongs to a wealthy family who own an apple orchard. She considers herself a grown woman and is either betrothed or wishes to be. Thinks the body and world around her are scrappy and improper. Doesn't seem to realise that she's in 2020 and her memories are false.

Name: Foxtrot
Role: ???
Age: 16
Gender+Pronouns: Cis female, she/her
Sexuality: ???
Bio: Half human, half fox. Thought to have formed when the host was around 11 years old and wanted to be an animal like in a video game. Very charismatic, excitable and chirpy. Has a lot of energy and loves talking to people. Very enthusiastic about contributing to our social media.

Name: Levi
Role: ???
Age: 20
Gender/Pronouns: Non-binary, they/them
Sexuality: Attracted to women
Bio: Has heavily influenced the body's fashion sense for a very long time. Looks like Ruby Rose and wants everyone to know it. Doesn't understand why we'd want to look any other way. Perfectly happy to cover our entire body with tattoos. Lowkey beautiful person inside and out.

Name: Ruby
Role: ???
Age: ???
Gender/Pronouns: Female, she/her
Sexuality: ???
Bio: Honestly have met her once and don't know much more about her than her name, gender and what she looks like.

Name: Victory
Role: Sexual Alter/Trauma Holder
Age: ???
Gender+Pronouns: Probably cis girl, she/her
Sexuality: Straight
Bio: She's a fetishist who isn't allowed to front often. Not a lot is known about her. She's a dominant sadist who only seems to have an interest in cis men.

Name: Big Guy
Role: Persecutor/protector
Age: ???
Gender+Pronouns: ??? he/they
Sexuality: ??? Probably ace/aro
Bio: Never allowed to front and kept away from co-con which is enforced by Sandra (introduced above). Thought to have formed when the host had too much anger/humiliation/devastation/fear to cope with anymore. Doesn't ever really speak, just screams and threatens. Extremely violent, highly dangerous.